View Full Version : Good way to ask girl out?


Derrick14
06-19-2008, 11:51 PM
I might just do it casual, but what would be a good way o stick out and show her how much I care?

FightFlyCrow
06-19-2008, 11:54 PM
Make sure youre alone, that is key.
Be honest. Tell her why you like her, why you want to go out.
Be brief, no need for a long speach.
If you feel comfortable with it hold her hand, it shows you care about a person.

Derrick14
06-19-2008, 11:55 PM
Make sure youre alone, that is key.
Be honest. Tell her why you like her, why you want to go out.
Be brief, no need for a long speach.
If you feel comfortable with it hold her hand, it shows you care about a person.

someones a little romantic ;) :p


that sounds like a real good idea

SkateThrash
06-19-2008, 11:56 PM
Yea, agreed with FFC.
Good luck. :)

cha-BANG
06-20-2008, 12:01 AM
wow ffc, good job there bro, i was gonna give the same tips basically,

-alone
-DO NOT make some HUGE thing up haha not good, she'll just look at ya funny ;)
-go for the hand thing, depends what kinda chick this is ^^
-just be sincere, and really focus, dont like, be looking around and stuff, makes you look like you don't care really

good luck haha ;)

lilro
06-20-2008, 12:16 AM
Be honest. Tell her why you like her, why you want to go out.



i dont give a **** if a girl is a *****, if she is hot i will do all i can to get in her pants.

no offence all the girls here

i think you gave bad advice FFC lol....

Derrick14
06-20-2008, 12:19 AM
to bad im out of rep and i cant neg you.


if anyone wrote that that was my friend jordan when he stayed over one night a LONG time ago

street skater
06-20-2008, 12:20 AM
Shave it into your pubes and pull your pants down in front of her, have it say something like "I care for you this much I shaved this in, will you got out with me!? <3"

lilro
06-20-2008, 12:22 AM
to bad im out of rep and i cant neg you.


if anyone wrote that that was my friend jordan when he stayed over one night a LONG time ago

i honestly could care less about rep...and you'd be the first to neg me...would actually be kinda cool seeing how you're "big bad derrick who looks at rep before doing anything else on sc..."i think im the only person over 1000 posts with no negs...but maybe you didn't notice the big fat lol at the end...kid

Shadowskater
06-20-2008, 12:24 AM
Shave it into your pubes and pull your pants down in front of her, have it say something like "I care for you this much I shaved this in, will you got out with me!? <3"
That's one waynot to get crabs atleast.

FSBBD
06-20-2008, 12:24 AM
a simple "hey wanna be my girlfriend" but you better add some info like why you love her and your desire to be her boyfriend. Say only those words to a girl straight up and she'll go "What the hell?" and that would be a terrible response to a serious question wouldnt it? You can buy a gift to show more love but then you could take the risk of her going out with you just cause you bought her a gift.

Hellview
06-20-2008, 12:26 AM
heres a quote of mine from another thread

just go for it bro, if she says no then you'll laugh about it later..

I remember how incredibly awkward I was in 9th grade, I'm still pretty wierd but it's nice to know how wierd and awkward you are instead of trying to not act awkward. Heres how I'd ask an aws girl out (aws is short for awesome)

me Oh, hey bro
her Oh hey super gnarly dude...
me I'm thinking me and you should hypothetically go to dinner or something, because I like food and I think you do too. *scratch head, lean against wall and look at the ceiling, wall, or locker anything but her*

WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN
her *obviously flirty giggles* yeah sure, you can hypothetically pick me up at 6?
me yeah, I'll hypothetically be there at 6.

LATER THAT NIGHT
http://img146.imageshack.us/img146/1027/toysto4pe6.jpg (http://imageshack.us)


WHAT PROBABLY WILL HAPPEN
her Yeah... uhh noo.. thanks..
me.. ok this never happened *wave your hand in her face (think jedi mind powers) slowly walk away facing her, then turn away and sprint as fast as you can away*

HighVoltageSk8r
06-20-2008, 12:27 AM
don't be a pussy.

that's how.

Ibanez
06-20-2008, 12:27 AM
Just ask her out and show her you care on the first date. Don't want to come off to hard at first though. But write her a song or poem, thats what I would do.

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 12:29 AM
Make sure youre alone, that is key.
Be honest. Tell her why you like her, why you want to go out.
Be brief, no need for a long speach.
If you feel comfortable with it hold her hand, it shows you care about a person.
^^^ coming from a gay man?

the best way to do it, is just tell her how you feel and go for it. hesitation and being unconfident is unattractive to most girls. so if you just tell her how it is, she'll usually tell you how she feels too. and if she says yes, go in for a kiss, it kinda seals the deal. i've been pretty successful with this method.

Hellview
06-20-2008, 12:29 AM
or if you wanna go for the cheesy factor, get her some kind of thing you really like.. then be like "well I got you this because I couldn't imagine someone giving me a better gift"

thats from a winnie the pooh mug my mom has..


^^^ coming from a gay man?

the best way to do it, is just tell her how you feel and go for it. hesitation and being unconfident is unattractive to most girls. so if you just tell her how it is, she'll usually tell you how she feels too. and if she says yes, go in for a kiss, it kinda seals the deal. i've been pretty successful with this method.

you just repeated exactly what FFC said...? unless the gay comment was sarcastic..? and if it wasn't I'm pretty sure gay people go on dates too..

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 12:31 AM
you just repeated exactly what FFC said...? unless the gay comment was sarcastic..?
he didn't say go in for the kiss, haha.

Hellview
06-20-2008, 12:35 AM
he didn't say go in for the kiss, haha.

wait go in for the kiss after she says yes to a date? no bro you gotta bust out the toungage when you drop her off at her house.. it's gotta be special

Madison
06-20-2008, 12:38 AM
Don't be surprised if you get the cheek if/when you go in for the kiss. :)

FFC's advice seems pretty good to me...if she likes you, it should work.

AJ
06-20-2008, 12:45 AM
don't be a pussy.

that's how.

best advice here.

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 12:47 AM
Don't be surprised if you get the cheek if/when you go in for the kiss. :)
why is this? i'd say if a girl is mature enough to want to date a guy and want him back she'll be happy to receive a little kiss on the lips.
Merging doublepost
you just repeated exactly what FFC said...? unless the gay comment was sarcastic..? and if it wasn't I'm pretty sure gay people go on dates too..
1.) way to edit your post and 2.) [the following has been edited to make everyone happy]

Shorty's_Kid
06-20-2008, 12:51 AM
Aceofjacks, Madison is female input, and she says that FFC's advice is the best.

Therefore, FFC's advice is the best. :)

asking butt-buddies out is different than asking girls out.

How so?

Bragas
06-20-2008, 12:53 AM
Captain Amazing that comment about "butt buddies" was totally OUT OF LINE bro.

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 12:56 AM
How so?
well, genetically speaking males and females chemistry are composed differently, therefore, on a molecular level females and males respond to stimuli differently. thus making asking out butt buddies and lady friends different, lol.
Merging doublepost
Captain Amazing that comment about "butt buddies" was totally OUT OF LINE bro.
dare i edit my post before FFC wakes up? i mean technically all i really said was "asking out guys is different than asking out girls".

AJ
06-20-2008, 12:58 AM
Aceofjacks, Madison is female input, and she says that FFC's advice is the best.

Therefore, FFC's advice is the best. :)


How so?

actually, the best advice is one that comes from the guy who have asked out alot of girls.

me.

i have been denied multiple times, and yet i have also been on alot of dates.

the best way to ask a girl out is to have confidence (aka don't be a pussy)

lilro
06-20-2008, 12:58 AM
well, genetically speaking males and females chemistry are composed differently, therefore, on a molecular level females and males respond to stimuli differently. thus making asking out butt buddies and lady friends different, lol.


lol way to get out of it without it sounding like you've tried it before

Hellview
06-20-2008, 12:59 AM
why is this? i'd say if a girl is mature enough to want to date a guy and want him back she'll be happy to receive a little kiss on the lips.
Merging doublepost

1.) way to edit your post and 2.) asking butt-buddies out is different than asking girls out.

1.) yeah, I edit about 90% of my posts after about a minute.. be careful

2.) not really if I were into other guys I'd probably tell them how I feel and all that stuff anyone in love wants to hear that stuff.

and butt buddies? don't like gay people or what? there are definitely better ways to put that

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:00 AM
^^^okay, i'm gonna go back and edit the hell out of all my posts in this thread now as to not offend anyone who can't take a joke.

Bragas
06-20-2008, 01:02 AM
dare i edit my post before FFC wakes up? i mean technically all i really said was "asking out guys is different than asking out girls".


FFC wasnt giving advice about how to ask out a guy, he was giving advice to ask out a girl...

Madison gave out advice...I've given advice before...Gloria has...

just dont even make it like that man...dont its uncessecary.

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:05 AM
and butt buddies? don't like gay people or what? there are definitely better ways to put that
many a gay man at my school has called me a "breeder", haha. and if they wanna make a joke about heterosexual sex, i'll be totally fine with that.
Merging doublepost
just dont even make it like that man...dont its uncessecary.
i'm sorry, how can i ever make it up to you?
Merging doublepost
lol way to get out of it without it sounding like you've tried it before
what's your issue bruddah? Edit: nm you repped me, haha.

Bragas
06-20-2008, 01:06 AM
i'm sorry, how can i ever make it up to you?
Merging doublepost



its whatever man.

i think FFCs advice was perfect. And i think this topic should be closed.

razz
06-20-2008, 01:06 AM
You watch this show:

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Madison
06-20-2008, 01:09 AM
why is this? i'd say if a girl is mature enough to want to date a guy and want him back she'll be happy to receive a little kiss on the lips.

It really does depend on how well he knows this girl...Some girls are not very comfortable with kissing a guy they barely know.

Aceofjacks, Madison is female input, and she says that FFC's advice is the best.

Therefore, FFC's advice is the best. :)

I can't argue with this. :) FFC definitely gave the best advice.

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 01:09 AM
not trying to take over your thread but related question. i like this girl who likes me. she smokes undrage(pot and cigs) should i date her anyeay. even though i dont like it?

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:11 AM
not trying to take over your thread but related question. i like this girl who likes me. she smokes undrage(pot and cigs) should i date her anyeay. even though i dont like it?
you shouldn't go into a relationship trying to change people, so if you are okay with her drug use, then go for it. who knows, maybe if she likes you enough she'll stop on her own, but don't expect anything.

lilro
06-20-2008, 01:12 AM
not trying to take over your thread but related question. i like this girl who likes me. she smokes undrage(pot and cigs) should i date her anyeay. even though i dont like it?

if you really dont like it then i wouldnt do it....but just go with her to the movies or somethin first and see how her personality is...and let her smoke infront of you to see if it really bothers you or not and if her personality outshines your feelings toward drugs.

punkybambi
06-20-2008, 01:12 AM
dont try to impress the girl or thing like that

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 01:13 AM
okay thanks i jsut am having trouble like i mean weve been friends for 4 years and now we really like eachother but i dont like that she smokes

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:17 AM
okay thanks i jsut am having trouble like i mean weve been friends for 4 years and now we really like eachother but i dont like that she smokes
are you really going to let a nasty little habit get in between you guys? thats kinda shallow.

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 01:19 AM
shes underage and smokes cigs and pot. both my grandparents died due to smoking so i am unsure. i might end up dating her though

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:25 AM
shes underage and smokes cigs and pot. both my grandparents died due to smoking so i am unsure. i might end up dating her though well, i guess you have a little more reason than most to be hesitant to date someone who smokes than. however, likely smoking is just a fad she's gotten into because most other girls her age do it.

johnny16tx
06-20-2008, 01:25 AM
give her a toblerone...?





















on a serious note
i have to agree with ffc

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 01:28 AM
well, i guess you have a little more reason than most to be hesitant to date someone who smokes than. however, likely smoking is just a fad she's gotten into because most other girls her age do it.

its partially family stuff and to an extent shes addicted. so you think its a fad that she'll get ove eventually?

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:32 AM
its partially family stuff and to an extent shes addicted. so you think its a fad that she'll get ove eventually?
how old are you guys now?

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 01:34 AM
haha if i say you'll give me crap but were in 8th grade,. and no im not omg i need a girl. its just i liek her and would date her.

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:36 AM
dude, you just need a chill girl sheckler style.

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 01:38 AM
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA that was good
but seriously

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:46 AM
seriously, just do it. all of the girls i know who started smoking in 8th grade actually cleaned up their act. however, all the goody goody girls from 8th grade are now running around my neighborhood naked and binge drinking. not that theres anything wrong with that! my life would be less exciting w/o them for sure, but as a general rule, the bad get better and the good get badder.

arejayismyname
06-20-2008, 01:47 AM
girls who smoke pot=no good.

first hand experience dude.
fun to mess around with but not the relationship type...

CaptainAmazing
06-20-2008, 01:52 AM
^^i'm pretty sure "RJ" is twelve. so need not listen to him.

Nick
06-20-2008, 08:27 AM
I'd never date a girl who smokes. I wouldn't care if my girl had a cigar with me like once a year. But seriously..I couldn't stand if she smokes. I see pretty girls all the time, but then they pop out a cig and I just get turned off.



Savedskater?...there is something about that name and wanting to date a girl who smokes pot that screams hypocrite!

street skater
06-20-2008, 08:35 AM
Phone her, but don't say anything just breath heavily into the phone.

fcgb
06-20-2008, 08:42 AM
if you're asking for advice on the internet, it's too late.

7evenUp
06-20-2008, 09:51 AM
brag to her about how awesome your tricks are.





:)
j/k

Nick
06-20-2008, 09:54 AM
if you're asking for advice on the internet, it's too late.

Its been too late for derrick since he was born.


According to Derrick his mom hates him, his friends beat the crap out of him, and he doesn't know how to ask a girl out. And on top of it he won worst member or 07.


He must be proud.

Sk8_Alchemist
06-20-2008, 10:20 AM
just speak to her, and ask her if she has something to do tonight, and if not..ask her if she wanna got out with ya (: this is a checked way! LOL

xSkater14x
06-20-2008, 10:23 AM
i honestly could care less about rep...and you'd be the first to neg me...would actually be kinda cool seeing how you're "big bad derrick who looks at rep before doing anything else on sc..."i think im the only person over 1000 posts with no negs...but maybe you didn't notice the big fat lol at the end...kid

I think i may have one neg. lol it was from SK. He doesn't remember why he negged me though. haha

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 11:03 AM
I'd never date a girl who smokes. I wouldn't care if my girl had a cigar with me like once a year. But seriously..I couldn't stand if she smokes. I see pretty girls all the time, but then they pop out a cig and I just get turned off.



Savedskater?...there is something about that name and wanting to date a girl who smokes pot that screams hypocrite!

shes a chrisitan haha

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 11:11 AM
Whatever you do, do not say " Will you go out with me" unless you actually are setting up a date. Remember in elementary school? When youd be like, wanna go out with me? But you wouldnt ever go anywhere? Thats some gay stuff right there. Kids in my school did that all the time. I find that you should be a little bit cocky,to show you have confidence. Not to cocky, or your just a douchebag, but just a little bit. AND, depending on what kind of girl, that might not work, but it usually does, becuase mostly all girls like confidence. And then theres the girls that think its cute when a guys nervous. I dont even think they exist, but ive heard about them.

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 11:12 AM
i get turned off by cigs too butshes pretty cool. i probably wont date her. about the pot though. its not against the bible except it is illegal. Even though it is illegal the bible says not to liste to lies. The goverment lies and says how addictive pot is and it will throw away your life. not nessasarily ttrue check this link
http://www.equalrights4all.org/religious/bible.htm

silentscary
06-20-2008, 03:10 PM
i get turned off by cigs too butshes pretty cool. i probably wont date her. about the pot though. its not against the bible except it is illegal. Even though it is illegal the bible says not to liste to lies. The goverment lies and says how addictive pot is and it will throw away your life. not nessasarily ttrue check this link
http://www.equalrights4all.org/religious/bible.htm

the bible doesn't say anywhere that you don't have to obey laws just because the people who make the laws are liars.... at least, not that i have seen.

Nick
06-20-2008, 04:12 PM
shes a chrisitan haha

Just because she says she is doesn't mean she lives for God. I could say im Mexican, but I am still American. It doesn't make a difference what I say. Its how I live.

silentscary
06-20-2008, 04:27 PM
Just because she says she is doesn't mean she lives for God. I could say im Mexican, but I am still American. It doesn't make a difference what I say. Its how I live.

he never said that she said she was a christian, she said she is a christan.....
but i get what you're saying :)

RIP_BOB_GNARLY
06-20-2008, 04:33 PM
Before you ask her out, you need to know everyone she has had sex with. You don't need herpes.

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 04:33 PM
^ Amen, bro.

phlap
06-20-2008, 04:50 PM
Add Hiv/Aids, Chlamidia and Crabs to the list.

RIP_BOB_GNARLY
06-20-2008, 05:43 PM
Add Hiv/Aids, Chlamidia and Crabs to the list.

Crabs isn't an std. It is pubic lice. I learned this in sex class. lol

street skater
06-20-2008, 06:07 PM
Either way your gonna lose your pubes.

savedskater43
06-20-2008, 07:56 PM
dude i know about the law thing i dont smoke. i just wanted to try to have an argument haha a good one. well i still might not ask her out i might idk.

jakedaskater
06-20-2008, 10:04 PM
dont write her a poem, dont tell her how you feel, dont hold her hand
if she doesnt like you as musch as you like her, she going to think all of that is REALLY CREEPY
just be like, "hey, wanna go out with me?"
and she will probably say "no, creepy guy"
but if your lucky, and maybe God doesnt hate you, she'll say "yes, creepy guy"

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:07 PM
okay.
from a girls perspective, don't go all out and buy her flowers.
yes we love flowers, but not when being asked out.
thats for prom. lol.

and like jakedastar said, just say do you want to chill or go out some time.
simple, yet still makes us feel good.

so yea :)
just do that and who knows.
maybe she likes you back.

Derrick14
06-20-2008, 10:14 PM
ok, so here is how this thing is gong so far.

We tell each other we like each other, so, she DOES like me back.
we hung out last night around 2 or 3 am, we went outside. it was cold so we sat close, she rested her head on my shoulder.

but I cant be brave enough to ask her out :p

jakedaskater
06-20-2008, 10:15 PM
wtf, you know she likes you, how would it be at all dificult to ask her out
and its cold, really? in june?

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:15 PM
:O

awwwe thats cutee.
well since its summer, just ask her to go to the beach with you, or to just chill.
she'll probably get the message .

Derrick14
06-20-2008, 10:19 PM
wtf, you know she likes you, how would it be at all dificult to ask her out
and its cold, really? in june?

it was 3 am

Chamaleon
06-20-2008, 10:20 PM
wtf, you know she likes you, how would it be at all dificult to ask her out

yeah dude.. i mean she said she likes you? so what's the difficulty of asking her out?
just do it dude

jakedaskater
06-20-2008, 10:20 PM
that doesnt make it cold!

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 10:21 PM
Lol she OBVIOUSLY likes you. Just be like " Are we together or what?" Or something like that. We know she likes you, so it really doesnt matter what you say, you dont have to impress her. BUT, if you dont say anything at all, she might lose interest. So just man up the balls to say something.

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:21 PM
that doesnt make it cold!

In canada yes it becomes cold.

it sometimes becomes 6 in the morning in ontario.
even in june.

jakedaskater
06-20-2008, 10:22 PM
In canada yes it becomes cold.

it sometimes becomes 6 in the morning in ontario.
even in june.

no, it doesnt

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:23 PM
you sure about that.

Madison
06-20-2008, 10:23 PM
And then theres the girls that think its cute when a guys nervous. I dont even think they exist, but ive heard about them.

We do exist. :)

Derrick14
06-20-2008, 10:24 PM
no, it doesnt

dude, you dont even know, untill you are outside for 2 hours at 2 am

EDIT: I shall ask her tonight and post how it went tomorrow.

Wish me luck :o

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 10:24 PM
We do exist. :)

nuh....uh....

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:25 PM
:O

That was dryy Krispy !

lol.

I agree with you 100 % madison
its adorablee.

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 10:27 PM
Whats dry mean?

And also, do you like shy guys AND confident guys?

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:28 PM
Dry.
harsh.
lol.
but i was being sarcastic. lol.

and actually yes i do.
as long as their not dicks and actually talk, then its all good.

krookedskater
06-20-2008, 10:32 PM
if you don't derrick I'm gonna play you in skate then beat you up.:)lol.

Derrick14
06-20-2008, 10:32 PM
I shall ask her tonight and post how it went tomorrow.

Wish me luck :o

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:32 PM
Awwwwe.

have fun:):P

jakedaskater
06-20-2008, 10:33 PM
I wish you bad luck!
HAHA! you didnt specify what kind you wanted!PLAYED!

Derrick14
06-20-2008, 10:34 PM
I wish you bad luck!
HAHA! you didnt specify what kind you wanted!PLAYED!

LMFAO! thanks

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 10:34 PM
I shall ask her tonight and post how it went tomorrow.

Wish me luck :o

I wish you luck, but i GUARANTEE your gonna do fine. Seriously, i know 100% she'll say yes.

But for real though, its a guarantee.









For real.

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:35 PM
For real ?

KrispyKicks
06-20-2008, 10:35 PM
Hell yeah its for real!

Im surprised your not laughing lol.

krookedskater
06-20-2008, 10:36 PM
oh by the way that was sarcasm so good luck!

they,grow up so fast....

Skaterbabe15
06-20-2008, 10:38 PM
ahah.

oh .
i giggled.
aha.
not laughed.
giggled.

you know yoru good when you get me to giggle :P

Bragas
06-21-2008, 01:24 AM
Dry.
harsh.
lol.
but i was being sarcastic. lol.

and actually yes i do.
as long as their not dicks and actually talk, then its all good.


doesnt dry mean having sex-
"get dry?"as in "did you have sex?"


thats how i use it

that or to say "**** off..."

street skater
06-21-2008, 01:47 AM
Girls think it's cute that i'm nervous so they do exist! my past 2-3 gf's thought it was cute.. aha.

jayadams
06-21-2008, 02:45 AM
I'm looking forward to how it went!

razz
06-21-2008, 03:14 AM
Why does anyone believe anything else Derrick has to say? He's just an attention whore and I proved he was a liar in the 'shooting' thread.

street skater
06-21-2008, 03:19 AM
Ohh where can i find this thread?

Hiutale
06-21-2008, 05:55 AM
yeaaah man just dont be scared and just talk to her about it and most likely if she likes you as well it'll all be goood.

Nick
06-21-2008, 07:46 AM
he never said that she said she was a christian, she said she is a christan.....
but i get what you're saying :)

samething......

ndib0804
06-21-2008, 12:47 PM
yea this 1 girl thought it was really cute that i was nervous, but it was completely different... i just saw her and decided to ask her if i could hang out with her, i didnt even kno her name lol and when i went to talk to her i was like jumping up and down cause i was nervous and she was like its ok and gave me a hug. But then i lost her number and i never saw her again. lol this was like 2 weeks ago.

KrispyKicks
06-21-2008, 01:09 PM
So did he get in that stuff or what?

-Wings-
06-21-2008, 01:33 PM
One thing you dont do when asking a girl out is look at her chest. A big a no no. Eye contact is key :p.

RIP_BOB_GNARLY
06-21-2008, 02:04 PM
One thing you dont do when asking a girl out is look at her chest. A big a no no. Eye contact is key :p.


No matter how hard I try not to do that when talknig to girls, I jsut can't help myself. I also can't resist looking at girls butts when they walk by.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:00 PM
she said no

7evenUp
06-21-2008, 06:18 PM
ah well, everyone gets rejected sometimes.

KrispyKicks
06-21-2008, 06:19 PM
she said no

Nuh uh? For real?

Your lying dude, theres no way.

unless she was a smut, and she just liked screwing around with guys.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:21 PM
she said she wants to hangout more first:icon_frow

KrispyKicks
06-21-2008, 06:22 PM
Oh. Your still in it d00d, dont be down on yourself. Stay positive. You got this bro. You GOT this.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:23 PM
no I dont

KrispyKicks
06-21-2008, 06:26 PM
Why are you so negative. You guys were kissing right? People dont just kiss for no reason.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:27 PM
apperantly they do now

Skaterbabe15
06-21-2008, 06:27 PM
awwwe !

that means shes giving it you another chance !

when we say we want to hang out first, that means that we just want to get to know you better, and that we just want to be better friends first.

so don't give up.

what she said was a good sign.
:]

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:29 PM
awwwe !

that means shes giving it you another chance !

when we say we want to hang out first, that means that we just want to get to know you better, and that we just want to be better friends first.

so don't give up.

what she said was a good sign.
:]

I dont think so, because I would much rather of heard, "yes"

^that would be a good sign

Skaterbabe15
06-21-2008, 06:31 PM
obviously you would have wanted to hear a yes.

hell. everyone would when they ask someone out.

wait..

what exactly did you say to her ?

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:35 PM
what exactly did you say to her ?

want to blow me?


jk,

I said, -- I really like you, and I was wondering if you would be my girlfriend?

or something like that

Skaterbabe15
06-21-2008, 06:36 PM
oh.
okay..

sorry but a liiittle bit too forward.
lol.

but heey.
you gave it a shot :)
good work.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:37 PM
not even

AJ
06-21-2008, 06:47 PM
maybe this is why she didn't say yes ^^^

freakin negative mopey baby.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:50 PM
no, i was happy at the time

KrispyKicks
06-21-2008, 06:50 PM
oh.
okay..

sorry but a liiittle bit too forward.
lol.

but heey.
you gave it a shot :)
good work.

How would you prefer a guy to ask you out?

Skaterbabe15
06-21-2008, 06:57 PM
Probably to be like "do you want to go out sometime" or something liek that.

it sends out the message, and is also casual. lol.

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 06:59 PM
not really, only if you are on msn or phone =S

Skaterbabe15
06-21-2008, 07:01 PM
or in person.

KrispyKicks
06-21-2008, 07:04 PM
Or skydiving, or swimming, or naked, or swimming naked, or skydiving naked, or mid-backflip, or mid-frontflip, or my favorite-while wrestling a baby koala bear to the ground

There all great times to ask a girl out.

Skaterbabe15
06-21-2008, 07:05 PM
lmaoo.

the only time not to ask someone out is if it was right out of a break up, a fight, or during a really really bad moment.
lol.

cha-BANG
06-21-2008, 07:07 PM
omfg..every post krispy makes, its more krispy-esque...its funny



hey derrick, you still in it like krispy said man, if she said that, you just gotta prove that you're a good friend too, and that you care. then she'll be able to decide. eventually, you can say like, i really like you (again), and put in that you'd like to spend more time with her, and in a more (personal, maybe?) way. then ask again? :P idk just advice

I amThe1 inUr80
06-21-2008, 08:23 PM
give her a baloon, all women aged 1-34 love balloons.

HighVoltageSk8r
06-21-2008, 08:28 PM
everyone gets shut down. suck it up.

imdesigner
06-21-2008, 08:35 PM
i honestly could care less about rep...and you'd be the first to neg me...would actually be kinda cool seeing how you're "big bad derrick who looks at rep before doing anything else on sc..."i think im the only person over 1000 posts with no negs...but maybe you didn't notice the big fat lol at the end...kid

i dont have any neg rep...

seth
06-21-2008, 09:07 PM
everyone gets shut down. suck it up.


i love how your so harsh haha

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 10:14 PM
I dont, hes an annoying ****in fag

jakedaskater
06-21-2008, 10:15 PM
I dont, hes an annoying ****in fag

lol
lets not flame, okay?
edit: unless hvs finds it funny

HighVoltageSk8r
06-21-2008, 10:21 PM
you can flame me. i think it's funny :D

Derrick14
06-21-2008, 10:22 PM
I wont, and I'm sorry for what I said :p

HighVoltageSk8r
06-21-2008, 10:23 PM
I'm sorry you got rejected :p

street skater
06-21-2008, 10:25 PM
You got to grow balls and utilise them, Just show that you're a caring guy and build a friendship first and flirt with her. damn.

EDIT: Lmao derrick, you neg rep me cause you got rejected, wow someone is getting butt hurt. Just shows why you did get rejected, you can't put up with what people say so you walk around mopey and get pissy on the internet, very mature. :D

M. Mordha
06-21-2008, 11:57 PM
I never understood why anyone thinks its a good idea to say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" instead of just "do you want to hang out sometime?"

I mean, "be my girlfriend"? It seems too...i dont know, forward?

Maybe a real girl (if there actually are any on the internet...im still suspicious...) can prove me wrong but it just seems like a bad way to ask IMO

ndib0804
06-22-2008, 12:43 AM
yea i never ask a girl if they want 2 be my gf... now my friend on the other hand says that to girls hes never met before and they always say yes for some reason...

fallenNJzero
06-22-2008, 07:32 AM
might want to ask her out when you guys are alone, unless you like having a bunch of people around, but she might not like that...tell her the truth, why you like her and etc. flatter her. and dont sound desperate, like you said be casual about it in a way

just noticed you arleady asked her out. eh mita been a bit too straight forward. do you know her well? she know you? and besides if she wants to hang out thats still good. i mean would you rather hear no. like shes givin you a chance and probably likes you, maybe not as much as you like her, but still

silentscary
06-22-2008, 12:08 PM
she said she wants to hangout more first:icon_frow

hahah, one time this really, really hot guy (i didn't really notice at the time how hot he was) told me that he had a thing for me, but i told him pretty much the same thing that this girl said to derrick.. that i just wanted to be friends for a while.

so yea. probably the dumbest thing i EVER did.

now, a year later, i keep trying to drop hints that i wouldn't mind starting something now, but he is being completely lame and not doing anything about it, even though i am almost positive that he is still interested....
i just wish he would take some initiative like he did in the past!

grr!

(oh, haha, and if anyone has any advice, i suppose that would be nice :))

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 12:11 PM
ahaha oooh damnn !

well do you still hang out with him ?
cuz if you do, just keep hanging wiht himm, talk to himm, you knoww, just, be with the kid.
not in a stalkerish way, cuz then its just creepy. lol.

street skater
06-22-2008, 12:15 PM
Be flirty to him, always works. haha.

silentscary
06-22-2008, 12:17 PM
ahaha oooh damnn !

well do you still hang out with him ?
cuz if you do, just keep hanging wiht himm, talk to himm, you knoww, just, be with the kid.
not in a stalkerish way, cuz then its just creepy. lol.

haha. actually no, i am not even hanging out with him really anymore...
but i am tired of inviting him to come places...
i wish i could even get that out of him...
just a few weeks ago it was all "yeah, we definetly need to hang out.
it was awesome seeing you again"

lol. guys.

Be flirty to him, always works. haha.

i just might if we ever hang out again...

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 12:19 PM
lol.

boys.
can't live with them, but ya can't live without them. lol.

well try moving on.
its hard, i know.
i just rejected some guy that i was into before, and now i regret it sooo bad.
but its life, you just need to learn from it.:)

street skater
06-22-2008, 12:21 PM
Learn from your mistakes.

silentscary
06-22-2008, 12:24 PM
yea... it's not that big of a deal...
it just sucks that i could have had him but i didn't, lol.

but yea, plenty of other guys in the world :)

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 12:24 PM
aha eeexactly.

thats the spirit !:P

silentscary
06-22-2008, 12:25 PM
PLENTY!

hahahah, lol. ;)

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 12:26 PM
lol.

plus its summer.
plenty of time to get over this kid, and have a summer thing, or even a relationship ;)
lol.

thats my plan.ahah

street skater
06-22-2008, 12:27 PM
This is the best advice a guy will ever give you.

Love 'em and leave 'em
Love' em or they leave you

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 12:28 PM
aaahaahah.

goood lord.

street skater
06-22-2008, 12:29 PM
Did you like the advice?

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 12:29 PM
lmaoo.

it made me laugh.

street skater
06-22-2008, 12:30 PM
There lyrics haha :p

KrispyKicks
06-22-2008, 02:03 PM
lmaoo.

it made me laugh.

Lol. OMG, SHE LAUGHED

Skaterbabe15
06-22-2008, 02:06 PM
its a shocker now isn't it krispy :O